ٖFatimah Khatoon (1910-1983) is my father’s cousin, and is also my wife’s paternal grand mother. She is here expressing the sentiments of the family torn apart by the partition of India. She used to write articles/poems in Monthly Ismat, which I am compiling in a book form and am currently in the process of giving final touches to the book.
My grandfather Abdul Ghani Hyder refused to settle down with his children in Pakistan and returned in 1951 to his hometown Nehtaur in Bijnor, India. His children, four sons and a daughter, all working for government and three of them married, decided to settle down in Pakistan. Majority of his extended family also migrated with some cousins choosing to remain in Nihtaur, Bijnor. They refused to leave their home town and their ancestral home of the family for centuries. Abdul Ghani Hyder used to come regularly to Pakistan till war of 1965 came and broke the relations with India. Thereafter travel to and fro from India became very difficult. Despite my uncles best efforts to go to India and/or bring him over proved futile because of the protracted tensions. He breathed his last on 16th November 1966 in Nihtaur. Inna lillah e wa inna ilaihi rajioon.
Backside of the page on which Fatimah Khatoon sent the poem
This memorable picture was taken at the time of my grandfather’s departure from Karachi in June 1961. He was here to attend my father’s wedding a month earlier. The names of each person in this picture were identified and written down by Syed Khurshid Alim Zaidi. His work in compiling the shajra is a great contribution to our family’s history.
10. Shah M Mubeen Ur Rehman (Sardar, Major) br/o Huzabra (w/o Ahsan Hyder)
11. Hadi Hasan (Gandhi Garden display of Mumtaz Mahal)
Unnumbered baby in the lap of (31) Mehmooda w/o Baray Osman Hyder Irani is ??
From notes taken by me as I wrote down what Ahsan Hyder (my father) told me about each face in around 2000.
Family Letters Archival Project.
This post provides a glimpse of history of 1951 good bye to a relative who refuses to migrate. This part of the compilation of Social History from my family’s letters exchanged from 1933 till the advent of whatsapp that has nearly killed the social exchange through letter writing. This project is inspired from my experience of visiting Harry Ransom Center during my studies at UT Austin.
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